Blatant staring is just creepy and uncomfortable.” “Aim for the thrill of a sub-conversation held only with the eyes.” “Don't send over a light beer, especially if I'm not drinking a light beer.If they are right next to me, you offer them a drink too.Most guys logically think that by telling a woman how they really feel about her, then she will reciprocate her feelings in return. Being a leader means going for what you want without making any excuses for it.Being vulnerable without depending on a desired outcome.The two services used by these individuals were OKCupid and Match.com, two of the largest and most popular dating websites on the Internet.
If she chooses not to follow it’s her loss, so move on without bitterness.One of the most insidious results of hookup culture is the retreat to the Principle of Least Interest – which says that the person who cares the least in a relationship is the one with the most power.Although research shows that most college students would prefer a relationship over casual sex, it’s become uncool to feel that way.You can’t watch as they smile, and that smile spreads up into their eyes and transforms their face into one of the most beautiful things you’ve ever seen – a thing that warms your heart and makes you realize you want to spend more time with the person. Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy.To get some insight into what women go through on these dating websites, I pulled aside one of my family members who I knew had spent some time on these sites looking for her future spouse. Okay, it’s time to have an open and frank discussion about the battle of the sexes and the dating game.