You might be an aviation professional - someone for whom the daily commute takes you to an airport or airfield, or perhaps you're just someone who looks skyward and feels a draw to the clouds.
Since I have been a flight attendant, I haven’t dated- at least seriously, or long-ly. With a flight attendant, or at least with me, dating becomes this ridiculous balance of where will she be, what timezone is she in, and when will I see her again? You may feel responsible for the sad, but you are not. The stupid job that takes away any control I crave. My life is more than only my airplane job, but includes my ridiculously consuming ambition.
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Maybe one day I’ll write about the British guy, the adventure film entrepreneur, or the fighter pilot, but as of now, I am still building my transparently-honest writing muscle, which will possibly be strong enough about the time carpel tunnel sets in.Yes, I know that is not a word, but for this, it best describes how I struggle with getting past the first or third date. The answers are confusing, and the process probably exhausting. I tell ‘normal people’ not to date flight attendants. Well, anywhere with me is nowhere and everywhere all at the same time. You are the one that must deal with my emotions that lack of sleep and exhaustion bring. To date me, or to date anyone means accepting faults, distractions, or focus.Most of the reason being that I’m like, “Hey, you’re cool. I would say the benefits, and not just flight wise trump the negatives. You will wonder why you ever decided to get a “real job.” You will find a relationship with a flight attendant to be an adventure in its own right, an adventure you must be 100 percent invested in. When one tells me, “I don’t care where I am, as long as I am with you,” I balk. That statement means that you will spend most of your time on an airplane as well. Realizing that I find much happiness in dreaming, and letting me dream is the only way to be seen in the midst.Now, I am finding that more and more often, I must double-check my judgment, because “This would make such a good story” is never a good reason, when it’s the only reason, or to discard common sense and hurt other people’s feelings.The more time that I live “The Flight Attendant Life”, I realize that, in the pauses between this cute boy and that, I feel my heart’s slight tug, internally saying, “Kara, I don’t know how many more meet and greets I can take.” Because flight attendants have the reputation of having boyfriends (I just realized that is almost a gender neutral statement…get it? I know how to flirt, and bat my eyes, and giggle, and love the challenge of , but…Hi all, Please let me know if you guys know something about dating life of cabin crew in Dubai.