Your Prince Charming made you feel special and so happy, that is until of course, you found out about Snow White, Rapunzel, Sleeping Beauty and that trampy blonde Smurf down the street. You can drive yourself nuts comparing yourself to someone else. None of this is really about her, besides you do have one advantage over this woman – she has no idea what’s coming – you do. This is why you will always find them surrounded by a group of admirers.It seemed like one minute, you were both consumed and in the midst of a love for the ages, and now he stands you up, ignores your calls and texts and you’re starting to feel like you’re annoying him. You’re obsessed and you can’t get him out of your mind. They create the pretense that they are important, sought after and popular, by collecting friends, ex’s and potential targets.The female narcissist makes up for what she lacks by constructing a false sense of self. In her rigid world, she is queen and the world revolves around her.Hell hath no fury like the rage you will encounter if you don’t completely ignore your needs for hers.When you finally get to confront him, he blows it off and spins it, so that you come off as jealous and needy. He doesn’t have the stones to tell you what is really going on, but your imagination has already filled in the blanks. You were tricked into falling in love with someone that seeks power and control by manipulating other people’s vulnerabilities and when you are in love, you’re vulnerable, so he made sure you fell – hard. Our hearts are aching for justice and it feels like a crime has been committed.His new target thinks she has just met her soul mate, she’s getting all of his attention and feels like she’s won. The fact that we were so easily replaced and forgotten makes us feel like we’ve just been emotionally raped, but you have to look at the source and understand that no one is exempt from his brand of cruelty.
The first time you meet her she seems to appear out of nowhere.
Yes, there is a difference between an A**hole and a Narcissist and apparently many folks are interested in the subject. They may scream and shout about how much they care about you (usually in a patronizing way). They falsely ‘love’ you when you are supplying them with their ego’s needs.
Next, I wrote about managing the narcissist in your life. They will exaggerate, change and retell the facts to suit them. The facts don’t matter because you’re wrong, regardless. You can rest assured the only time you’ll hear that kind of proclamation is when you have done something they don’t approve of. This probably sounds familiar whether your ex is a narc or you’re a child, an employee, a sibling or a friend of a Narc. The minute you stop being a source of supply that’s the minute the narc stops ‘loving’ you. You are simply a part of their world, their agenda and are exploited as such. Even though they don’t care about you, they don’t see you as an individual and you’re mostly always wrong; you will be charmed by their humor, generosity and artificial warmth.
The female Narcissist is attractive, intelligent, very charming and highly confident that she can take everything you own.
These women lack what healthy women possess naturally; a conscience, character, empathy for others, etc.