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Your date might also have kept in contact with friends who knew both of them while they were together.
While it’s not always easy, try your best to be understanding and remember that there’s no need to feel threatened by his past.
Go ice skating, take a day hike, visit the zoo or attend a sporting event.
Activities such as those offer low-pressure ways of becoming acquainted with each other.