If only “Guy” had said, “Let’s sample some flavors of rice pudding at Rice to Riches and then see if we can find the best cannoli in Little Italy,” they might have found love. You’re sampling the personality of the other person. Have post-traumatic stress disorder because of a hot chocolate experience?
Related: How to Plan a Second Date See what I mean? Are you being super negative and nixing everything the other person wants to do?
When is the last time you really had fun with your spouse?
Dating creates an opportunity for you to go out, have fun, and laugh together.
It will steer clear from the confusion, the worry, the stress and the mind games that come with not knowing.
If someone isn’t making their intentions clear, odds are they may have different intentions or could be fearful in voicing it. Both involved can get blindsided simply because a lack of upfront communication. If more people said “I don’t date just to date,” I think we’d have fewer confused and tormented hearts.
Do you remember the early stages of your relationship? Dating is a reminder of that love, that passion that you have for your spouse.
The same goes for men who desire a godly woman for the intention of marriage.
Creating A Path To A Serious Relationship Making your intent clear in the beginning is an immense strengthening quality; it enacts a certain seriousness to a relationship that would otherwise be a bit like wandering in the dark.
There are several reasons for this: you’re not taking up each other’s time, you understand you’re not dating just to date but with the possible intention of marriage, you’re not on entirely different pages, and it could lead to a lot smoother road towards matrimony.
Being Clear In Your Communication Not only should the pursuer make his intentions clear in the beginning, but he should be clear if he wants to move deeper even while he is pursuing you.