To be honest, I'm a skeptic when it comes to online dating.
Am I supposed to believe I can find "The One" on an app like Tinder? I spent the past few months examining a range of studies on online dating and marriage to see what I could find. According to online dating literature, dating services can't really improve relationship outcomes.
This is because we invoke different and sometimes less cognitively taxing decision making strategies when choosing from a large array (as with online dating) than when we choose on a one to one basis in real life. Cyberspace romance: The psychology of online relationships. Visit my website follow me on Twitter @martingraff007 I'm curious how many people misrepresent their relationship status in other dating venues compared to online.In a recent comprehensive analysis, Northwestern University psychologist Eli Finkel and collaborators claim that online dating sites not only don’t improve, but may even hurt those seeking happiness in their relationships.It was natural enough that online dating services would develop and evolve over the past two decades.How many Tinder swipes are necessary for me to find true love? On dating sites like Match.com, which allow users to make their own dating decisions, daters have difficulty meeting the right partners.Flippancy aside, I realize not everyone may believe in soulmates or even marriage for that matter, but whatever your intent, do you find yourself wondering if online dating even works? Studies show that they are unable to make successful selections.Instead of focusing on how compatible we think one potential partner is to us, we perform joint evaluations, which make us prioritize traits that don't really matter to relationship success.